Why helping others actually helps yourself?
Could create your character be likened to an artist creating a sculpture? You will still be somebody. You will always be alive but might have a personality rather than a character.
But do you want to know the fantastic thing about the character? If you are sincere, it is something that you must take responsibility for creating. I don’t believe that adversity by itself
I believe that all human beings have some area of their life that causes them a lot of pain. It also causes them to fight silent battles as there is this thing inside them that HURTS.
Helping others will lead you to live better.
Helping others should be a natural extension of every one of us. Unfortunately, it does not come as easy as you would think.
What people don’t realize about a lot of really successful and wealthy people is that a lot of their success drives by this pain and angst. No one feels sorry for the rich guy or gal with a beautiful house on the beach – but if you got to know them and saw some of the ghosts from their past, you might think differently about their lives.
There are so much jealousy and envy that exists in the world. Realizing that every person has a certain level of consciousness that allows them to do what it is they do, makes it easier to build rapport with them.
Think about this: How do you help someone if you resent them? How do you help YOURSELF if you dislike YOURSELF? How well do you do with something if you disconnect from it? The answer: Not well.
Instead, you can start to think about how to make your life and business help better people’s lives. The more you can make yourself useful, the more you will meet and build relationships with a lot more people. And this doesn’t apply only to business. It applies to parent, dating, and every other aspect of life.
Some thoughts on how you can help others, you can start with finding out what’s valuable to them and share your knowledge or resources. You can volunteer your time. Volunteering your time, money, or energy to help others does not just make the world better – it also makes you better. Studies indicate that the very act of giving back to the community boosts your happiness, health, and sense of well-being. For me, helping others give me a sense of purpose and satisfaction together with happiness feeling.
How will YOU help people become better? What will YOU do to make yourself more useful?
Live your life, Love your life!